Phallus

Emotion, and especially sexual desire, is not to be suppressed. It should be allowed to spontaneously purify, just like everything else.
 
People are in such a twist about sex, they have become totally lost. 
 
The sexual act closes the gates of earth and opens the gates of heaven. We transmute our entire life force, loosening false identities, stuck feelings and thoughts - liberating them all. 

Sex is the ultimate protection; the ultimate fast; and the ultimate cleansing - when it is an act of love. 

With the cycles of heaven and earth energy which naturally traverse through us daily, we have the opportunity to fill like a universal reservoir.
 
The male and the female in us blends and combines. 
 
As this speeds up, form generates: based on the dream of our being. This form can be the body of another living being or a worldly project.
 
Or that male-female union can entirely rephysicalise us - as an embodiment of love.

What if we have no partner? This doesn't matter. The same cycle happens whether we are sexually active or not. 
 
The point is to avoid fixation, on anything, and have a problem with nothing. Then purification meets no obstacle, pure love absorption accumulates and we switch into more universal light transmission in the world. 
 
All of this is nature; it needs no instructions or teachings. Secret rites are not necessary and firmly belong to the ego.
 
Ah! So all of those paths and sexual practices to get somewhere better: in the end they are not necessary?
 
That's right. They mean nothing. They are like a Buddha seen floating in the distance, high up above in the clouds ... 

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Chimi Lhakhang, Lobesa, Punakha Valley.
 
I see how so many of you have become enmeshed in false identities which under- and overplay the importance of sex. Drukpa Kunley (འབྲུག་པ་ཀུན་ལེགས་), the famous Tibetan naljorpa (yogi), made it his business to sleep with as many women as he could when he came to Bhutan in order to release the people from their ignorance. He pinned a major demonness under Chimi Lhakhang and today, couples travel from all over the world in order to receive a blessing from his bow and arrow and a massive bone phallus interred in the temple since the 16th century. Many many of them successfully conceive. On the cold wooden floor: 
 
Remember! You will conform with and exceed every tradition and text, once sex no longer controls you and your life force can truly fly free!
 
Much love x